Relational Awareness

Just from the title of this post, you have probably figured out I’m a lil country girl…lol  Well, I am and I’m proud of it.  Because I was brought up in the country, I had the luxury of enjoying my childhood.  I wasn’t forced to grow up.  I was able to play outside well...
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When you look in the mirror, what do you see?  If you’re like most women, what you see has nothing to do with what is staring back at you.  Your mind’s eye takes over and you become critical of your ‘flaws’.  Your mind’s eye sees that you are too fat, too skinny, too dark,...
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Sex is a very touchy topic to openly discuss. Masturbation or self-pleasure is just as touchy.  (No pun intended.)  It is because most people are taught to  think of sex, including masturbation as a dirty carnal sin.  People tend to think if you masturbate,  you are over sexed–or a nympho or your partner does...
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I love my grandfather.  He’s a silent, thoughtful man.  He’s slow to speak, but when he does, you just know to pay attention.  He’s full of wisdom and knows how to deliver a message straight-forward and laced with love.  Young, old and in between come to him for advice.  He’s affectionately known as ‘Mr....
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By now almost everyone has heard of the devastation caused on January 12, 2010 by the earthquake in Haiti.  The last reported news stated that the death toll was somewhere near 500,000 and counting.  That’s half a million people dead from a 7.0 Richter scale earthquake.  Now compare that to the 1989 earthquake in...
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Wanna know why your man is not talking to you?  It’s because you won’t SHUT THE HELL UP AND LISTEN!!!  If you would just be quite, be still and listen, he’ll talk.  Believe it or not, he wants to talk.  He wants you to know that he’s stressed, confused, uncertain.  He wants you to...
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Are you one of those people who make New Year’s Resolutions?   If so, do you stick with them until they are resolved?  New Year’s Resolutions are the most readily made and often the most easily broken promises.   Allow me to share  some statistics with you.  About 40-45% of Americans make New Year’s resolutions every...
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To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in...
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You are my sunshine, my only sunshine You make me happy when skies are gray You never know dear how much I love you Please don’t take my sunshine away I’m sure the majority of those reading this post has either had someone sing that song to them or they have sang that song to someone.  It was...
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There’s nothing like being ‘validated’.  There’s nothing like being loved, valued and appreciated.  Enjoy!!! Validating the -licious in you, J-licious
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