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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2012 19:13:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It Beloved just Imagine how it feels physically, energetically, emotionally, and spiritually to have the love essence of every molecule, atom, and sub-atomic particle in the universe dancing with delight to re-join similar love essences within your being. The energetic response is ecstatic! Practicing sacred sexuality and channeling loving energy are highly effective ways to raise our vibrations to the level of embodied “gods and goddesses.” Science teaches that our physical bodies are not as dense as they appear and that there is more space within our bodies than there is density. Sacred sexuality is about sharing and exploring an intimate relationship with this inner spaciousness beyond the dense, material body. It’s a state of living in the vibration of the soul. It’s about accessing our souls–the parts of us that remember bliss beyond measure. Afterwards, everything we do becomes an experience of union with All That Is. The term sacred sexuality has many closely related meanings. But since the word sacred refers to “the spirit” and sexuality refers to “the body,” the two words combined describe a merging of the worlds of spirit and matter, or the soul with the body. Sacred sexuality is about experiencing levels of [...]]]></description>
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<p>Beloved just Imagine how it feels physically, energetically, emotionally, and spiritually to have the love essence of every molecule, atom, and sub-atomic particle in the universe dancing with delight to re-join similar love essences within your being. The energetic response is ecstatic! Practicing sacred sexuality and channeling loving energy are highly effective ways to raise our vibrations to the level of embodied “gods and goddesses.”</p>
<p>Science teaches that our physical bodies are not as dense as they appear and that there is more space within our bodies than there is density. Sacred sexuality is about sharing and exploring an intimate relationship with this inner spaciousness beyond the dense, material body. It’s a state of living in the vibration of the soul. It’s about accessing our souls–the parts of us that remember bliss beyond measure. Afterwards, everything we do becomes an experience of union with All That Is.</p>
<p>The term sacred sexuality has many closely related meanings. But since the word sacred refers to “the spirit” and sexuality refers to “the body,” the two words combined describe a merging of the worlds of spirit and matter, or the soul with the body.</p>
<p>Sacred sexuality is about experiencing levels of ecstatic bliss and unconditional love (usually only attainable through prolonged practice of advanced meditation techniques) and, most importantly, bringing these experiences into our daily lives. It’s ultimately about living bliss and not just feeling it. In practicing sacred sexuality, we learn to live within the material world while integrating an experience and vibration beyond this world–one that feels ecstatic and almost uncontainable. This vibration translates into consistently feeling unconditional love for all people and things, which is why it can be called living bliss.</p>
<p>In sacred sexuality, all aspects (physical, energetic, emotional, mental, and spiritual) of our beings are utilized to arouse the fullest experience possible. With this higher focus, we become keenly aware that we are all more than bodies. With the increased depth and sacredness, it becomes easier to open our hearts and allow our partners into the sacred spaces of our souls. Then sexual ecstasy occurs at the point when our bodies are merging with spirit, as we disappear as individuals and become one with everything.</p>
<p>Contrary to most beliefs, the true practitioners of sacred sexuality are not obsessing on sexual intercourse. Instead, they are using the act of sensual expression as a means to unveil themselves–on their own or with others–and are doing so with the most vulnerable aspect of their beings, their sexual selves. Sacred sexuality offers an expansive experience based on mutual love, acceptance, and authenticity.</p>
<p>Sacred sexuality allows us to deepen pleasure, expand orgasms, and broaden our ideas of pleasuring beyond, but not excluding, intercourse. It also deepens the purpose of lovemaking beyond bodily connecting to include joining emotionally and spiritually with our partners. With a willingness to bring our higher selves (hearts and souls) to the sharing of our emotions and bodies, we reach new levels of Divine Presence.</p>
<p>The practice of sacred sexuality requires the self-awareness and maturity to follow a few simple principles and to set healthy boundaries. The essential principles are Safety, Responsibility, Communication, Trust, and Surrender.</p>
<p>It’s not uncommon for people to describe their more favorable sexual experiences as “great sex.” Yet, few have any idea how great a sexual experience can be and live with a limited understanding about sexuality. One example is that of Marilyn Monroe, who projected the image of a sexual goddess but is said to have had a history of sexual abuse that undoubtedly contributed to her claim to have never had an orgasm.</p>
<p><div class="simplePullQuote">Generally speaking, there are two different types of sexual experiences. One focuses on what might be called the “heights of sex,” often referred to as “great sex,” while the other accesses the “depths” of sex, which is sacred sexuality.</div>A relationship that emphasizes the heights of sex focuses mainly on stimulation and nervous system response. This experience is merely “having sex.” It is referred to in yogic traditions as tamas, or sex of a shallow consciousness. It arises from unfulfilled fantasy and addictive behaviors, rather than from conscious sharing with a partner. It stresses quantity over quality. The heights of the sexual experience are usually measured by the intensity and quantity of stimulation and the success of orgasms, which is like judging the quality of food by the quantity ingested. Such stimulation has a “hot” energy and is focused on excitation of the clitoris or penis, while the depths of sex have a “warm or cool” energy and focus on the ecstasy released between the heart and breasts, as well as the energetic aspects of the genitals. Encounters focusing on the heights of sex could be defined as physically intense and stimulating, but emotionally and spiritually shallow.</p>
<p>A relationship focusing on the depths of sex, on the other hand, accesses the soul of both partners. It is known as “making love,” and is referred to in yogic traditions as sattva, or sex that is wholistic. The depths of sex encourage both partners to make use of their bodies, minds, and souls to access each other’s heart. This type of interaction between partners provides the safety to explore the darker issues and inhibitions that may arise during a truly intimate sexual experience.</p>
<p>The heights of sex stir us to quickly remove the clothes of our lovers before having sex. The depths of sacred sex encourage us to dress them afterwards. The heights draw us to kiss them numerous times on the way to orgasm, but the depths stir us to kiss them afterwards. The heights stir us to reach for their genitals, but the depths encourage us to reach for their hearts.</p>
<p>It should be noted that both the heights and depths of sex can be very addictive. Sexual addiction and other forms of shallow sex often result from a desire to hide or escape from issues that need healing. The potential addictions behind sexual heights are rooted in personal dysfunction. Behind every shallow sexual interaction, there hides a person who does not want to see or be seen at a deeper level. In such cases, sex is used as a distraction. Until we realize that we are the “other person” we’ve been looking for, others will eventually leave us feeling empty.</p>
<p>On the other hand, the reason that sexual depths can be addictive is easily understandable. Although sexual heights offer intense levels of sexual stimulation that can leave us wanting more, the depths of sex offer a connection of body, mind, and soul that can be all encompassing. In other words, although stimulation can feel good, bliss feels great! Experiencing the depths of sexual bliss, especially for the first time, feels like the voice of God calling us home. There is an undeniable sense of completeness. We long to make this experience an integrated part of our lives. Of course, we can also become attached to anyone (partners, healers or teachers) who assists us in this awakening, but as we make this blissful state a part of our own consciousness, we realize that attaching our feelings to others is pointless.</p>
<p><div class="simplePullQuote">If sex, in and of itself, were magical, there would be a lot of enlightened porn-stars in the world.</div>Without a spiritual and loving intent, sex limits the expression of our True Self and becomes a form of self-condemnation. In other words, sex without depth of consciousness is not only valueless but destructive as well. Conscious sex, on the other hand, is one of the finest rewards on the path to enlightenment. Thus, the practice of sacred sexuality can be summarized as a process designed to deepen your connection to the Spirit of Love and to awaken your physical body–allowing this temple to become as passionate and alive as the divine originally intended it to be. its a must to keep are sex sacred !!!</p>
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		<title>Sexuality, Sensuality and Spirituality</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2012 23:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It &#8220;It&#8217;s okay to be and feel sexy, sensual and sacred all at once&#8221; Deepak Chopra&#8217;s insights on Sex, Sensuality and Spirituality Deepak Chopra is hands down one of my favorite authors.  The passionate way in which he writes reels me in and keeps me on the edge of wanting to know more.  His words are filled with sage wisdom and love.  Which for me is the &#8216;perfect combination&#8217;.  Just wanted to share with you a few insights of his latest book entitled Kama Sutra Including the Seven Spiritual Laws of Love. Sexual energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. All things that are alive come from sexual energy. In animals and other life forms, sexual energy expresses itself as biological creativity. In humans, sexual energy can be creative at all levels &#8212; physical, emotional and spiritual. In any situation &#8212; where we feel attraction, arousal, awakening, alertness, passion, interest, inspiration, excitement, creativity, enthusiasm &#8212; in each of these situations, sexual energy is at work. Whenever we feel these states of awareness, we must put our attention on the energy that we are experiencing, nourishing it with our attention, experiencing it with joy and keeping it [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s okay to be and feel sexy, sensual and sacred all at once&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Deepak Chopra&#8217;s insights on Sex, Sensuality and Spirituality</strong></h2>
<p>Deepak Chopra is hands down one of my favorite authors.  The passionate way in which he writes reels me in and keeps me on the edge of wanting to know more.  His words are filled with sage wisdom and love.  Which for me is the &#8216;perfect combination&#8217;.  Just wanted to share with you a few insights of his latest book entitled <a title="Kama Sutra Including the Seven Spiritual Laws of Love" href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1852273852?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=jlici-20&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=1852273852" target="_blank">Kama Sutra Including the Seven Spiritual Laws of Love</a>.</p>
<p>Sexual energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. All things that are alive come from sexual energy. In animals and other life forms, sexual energy expresses itself as biological creativity. In humans, sexual energy can be creative at all levels &#8212; physical, emotional and spiritual. In any situation &#8212; where we feel attraction, arousal, awakening, alertness, passion, interest, inspiration, excitement, creativity, enthusiasm &#8212; in each of these situations, sexual energy is at work. Whenever we feel these states of awareness, we must put our attention on the energy that we are experiencing, nourishing it with our attention, experiencing it with joy and keeping it alive in our awareness.</p>
<p>Sexual desire is sacred and chaste. The suppression of sexual energy is false, ugly and unchaste.</p>
<p>During sexual union, there is union between flesh and spirit.</p>
<p>Bliss, carefreeness and playfulness are the essence of sex.</p>
<p>To improve your sexual experiences, get rid of your expectations.</p>
<p>Expectations are primarily in three areas: 1) Performance, exemplified in the question, &#8220;How am I doing?&#8221; 2) Feeling, exemplified in the question, &#8220;How am I feeling?&#8221; 3) Security, exemplified in the question, &#8220;Do you love me?&#8221;</p>
<p>In sex, as in all areas of life, resistance is born of fear. All resistance is mental. It implies judgment against what is being felt. Sex becomes a problem when it gets mixed with hidden emotions such as shame, guilt and anger.</p>
<p>Sexual intimacy is the road to the taste or experience of true freedom, because it is the one area of life in which we can become completely uninhibited and free.</p>
<p>Sexual fulfillment occurs when the experience comes from playfulness instead of need. Frequently people bring their conflicts and needs into the sexual experience. When sex is used to fulfill needs, it leads to addiction. When sex comes from playfulness, the result is ecstasy.</p>
<p>All problems related to sex, neurosis, deviancy, sexual misbehavior, violence, abuse, can be traced to resistance, suppression and repression &#8212; not to the sexual urges themselves. If we are allowed to discover our urges, desires and emotions, without outside inhibition, they won&#8217;t go to extremes. Extremism, in any form, is a reaction to repression, inhibition and suppression. Aggression and violence are the shadow energies of fear and impotence.</p>
<p>Sex is a means of escaping our little self or ego. It is many peoples&#8217; only experience of meditation.</p>
<p>Meaningful sex has to be value based. Values are personal. Each situation that has sexual energy in it, involves the whole human being and their entire value system. My values may be different from yours, and I have no right to be the moral judge of anyone&#8217;s values. It is important, however, to have core values, and respect them. Without values, we become spiritually bankrupt. Sexual experience will never cause problems and will always be joyful, if lovers share the same values.</p>
<p>True intimacy is union between flesh and flesh, between subtle body and subtle body, between soul and soul. Sexual energy is sacred energy. When we have restored the sexual experience to the realm of the sacred, our world will be chaste and divine, holy and healed.</p>
<p>Deepak</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 01:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It I have for many years been ignorant of the power that I possess by simply being born a Woman.  There were times when I considered my Femininity a curse. Not until a few years ago, did I come to realize the Divinity that is Femininity. And today, I make it a point to remind other women of the Divine that resides within them.  We must learn to honor every part of who we are.  This includes honoring our Yoni. The Yoni has been called by many names which I’m sure I don’t have to list here.  Sanskrit in origin, the broad interpretation is “holy space”.  The Yoni is the gateway of the womb which is absolute divine presence and power.  When a woman’s Yoni is truly activated it brings her man to heights and depths of consciousness which are difficult to attain even with years of doing what I call inner work.  The only requirement is Love.  In order to awaken the divine element within the Yoni a woman must first possess a true love and understanding of the role the feminine plays in creating this universe. There is a dire need for women to truly embody the [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have for many years been ignorant of the power that I possess by simply being born a Woman.  There were times when I considered my Femininity a curse. Not until a few years ago, did I come to realize the Divinity that is Femininity. And today, I make it a point to remind other women of the Divine that resides within them.  We must learn to honor every part of who we are.  This includes honoring our Yoni.</p>
<p>The Yoni has been called by many names which I’m sure I don’t have to list here.  Sanskrit in origin, the broad interpretation is “holy space”.  The Yoni is the gateway of the womb which is absolute divine presence and power.  When a woman’s Yoni is truly activated it brings her man to heights and depths of consciousness which are difficult to attain even with years of doing what I call inner work.  The only requirement is Love.  In order to awaken the divine element within the Yoni a woman must first possess a true love and understanding of the role the feminine plays in creating this universe. There is a dire need for women to truly embody the ultimate potential of their being and dissolve herself into the divine energy of the Goddess.</p>
<p>Unfortunately the woman has just been used as an instrument of sensual/sexual entertainment and as an emotional garbage can. Whenever a woman receives a man’s penis in her Yoni while he is in negative emotions, the residue of those emotions and thought forms stay in the Yoni of that woman. This creates stagnation and blocks in her serene flow of energies and compromises the sense of peace and stillness within herself.</p>
<p>Women whose heart and Yoni have opened completely have the power to change the face of the Earth. And the first step towards this absolute embodiment is to cleanse the Womb and Yoni from the energetic residue of conditioning and emotions left in it by the outer world and her sexual experiences. A Yoni is regarded as the very source from which the universe emerges; it nurtures existence and dissolves matter and form back into the universal blackness.</p>
<p>The power to create and nourish existence of life is not an easy task and what manifests out of that power is totally dependent upon what spiritual state the woman is in. If the woman is in joy, even a cave carries more beauty than a palace, when the woman is in utter distress a castle carries the fragrance of ruin. Woman is the ultimate beauty, and she intoxicates the environment around her with it. At the very core of her being resides the Source of the universe.   We are the Creators of Life.  Create Consciously with integrity and with honor.</p>
<p>Jacque</p>
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		<title>Smart Is The New Sexy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jun 2011 22:53:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It One of my Facebook friends, Elijah Hakim-Adonijah, made the statement….Smart is the new Sexy. Hakim, I could not agree with that statement more. Hakim asked that I record a video expounding on that statement. But before I did, I had to do a little research on the subject of what men found sexy in a woman. I’m glad I did. Because what I learned was quite enlightening for me. What I found was when I asked several of my male friends what they found Sexy in/about a woman, their answers had nothing to do with sex. What I found was the things that they found Sexy in a woman were things they respected about her. That caused me to ask a few internal questions. One of them…..if what they find sexy about a woman has nothing to do with sex, then what causes them to look at a woman and think….I wanna have sex with her. My answer……the word PROVOCATIVE. The word provocative comes from the word ‘provoke’. And although Sexy and Provocative BOTH provoke, they provoke on different levels. Allow me to give you examples of what my male friends shared with me. Sexy – Woman who [...]]]></description>
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<p>One of my Facebook friends, <a title="Hakim Speaks" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Hakim-Speaks/149722471750285" target="_blank">Elijah Hakim-Adonijah</a>, made the statement….Smart is the new Sexy.  Hakim, I could not agree with that statement more.  Hakim asked that I record a video expounding on that statement.  But before I did, I had to do a little research on the subject of what men found sexy in a woman.  I’m glad I did.  Because what I learned was quite enlightening for me.</p>
<p>What I found was when I asked several of my male friends what they found Sexy in/about a woman, their answers had nothing to do with sex.  What I found was the things that they found Sexy in a woman were things they respected about her.  That caused me to ask a few internal questions.  One of them…..if what they find sexy about a woman has nothing to do with sex, then what causes them to look at a woman and think….I wanna have sex with her.  My answer……the word <strong>PROVOCATIVE</strong>.</p>
<p>The word provocative comes from the word ‘provoke’.  And although Sexy and Provocative <strong>BOTH</strong> provoke, they provoke on different levels.  Allow me to give you examples of what my male friends shared with me.</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who takes care of her NATURAL self ( eats healthy, exercises, cares for her &#8216;natural&#8217; body)<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Video Vixens, weave, extensions, lashes, boobs….etc</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who cooks and cleans her home<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who dines out frequently because she can’t cook, clubs and parties on the weekend and her home looks like a tornado just came through it</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who provides for, disciplines, and takes time to teach her children<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who ignores her children to spend time with him</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who is well spoken with an extensive vocabulary.<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who’s vocabulary only consists of a vast amount of profane and vulgar words.  Woman who butchers the English language and it’s her primary language</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who innerstands that her body is for his pleasure and not for every man she comes into contact with<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who uses her body to gain the attention and validation she seeks from EVERY man she encounters</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who earns and respects her money.  She invests, saves and spends wisely<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who spends every cent she earns on things that will depreciate as soon as she leaves the store with it and then turns around and asks him for money to pay her bills</p>
<p><strong>Sexy</strong> – Woman who reads and seeks out information that will improve her life, the life of her family, and her community<br />
<strong>Provocative</strong> – Woman who never reads or only reads fiction romance books.  Woman who spends her down time sitting in front of a television</p>
<p>Now do you see the difference between Sexy and Provocative?  Yes, they both provoke; however, sexy has the ability to provoke a man’s nature to protect and provide where provocative provokes a man’s nature to bed you and leave you.  Not to mention that all the things I mentioned that men found sexy were also <strong>SMART</strong>.  So there you have it…..<strong>Smart IS the new Sexy</strong>.</p>
<p>Another Smart Move….visit <a href="http://hakimspeaks.com/" target="_blank">HakimSpeaks</a>.</p>
<p>J’licious</p>
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		<title>Sex&#8230;.Sport or Sacred</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 21:24:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin ItToo often in today&#8217;s society, we find men and women engaging in what has been coined &#8216;Sport Fucking&#8217;.  The name alone gives you an idea of the emptiness in such a sexual encounter.  Perhaps it &#8216;feels&#8217; good for the moment; however, how long does that feeling last?  And what does it cost you in return?  I would think that &#8216;sport fucking&#8217; would be similar to an addiction. Or perhaps it is not only similar to, it is an addiction.  A person goes on the hunt for that &#8216;feeling&#8217; over and over and over again.  Only to find that they are still empty, unfulfilled and tired of all the sporting around. I know a few people who engage in sex as a sport.  To their friends they talk about how much fun they are having.  They smile as they share their escapades.  Yet when I&#8217;ve sat down with them in intimate conversation, they share a very different story.  They tell stories of disgust&#8230;.of themselves and their sexual partners.  They share how they feel unclean and dirty.  They tell stories of lies and deceit.  They question why they even continue in such acts.  They also share stories of unquestioned pain and [...]]]></description>
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<p>I know a few people who engage in sex as a sport.  To their friends they talk about how much fun they are having.  They smile as they share their escapades.  Yet when I&#8217;ve sat down with them in intimate conversation, they share a very different story.  They tell stories of disgust&#8230;.of themselves and their sexual partners.  They share how they feel unclean and dirty.  They tell stories of lies and deceit.  They question why they even continue in such acts.  They also share stories of unquestioned pain and even loneliness.  They even secretly wish they knew how to stop.  How ironic is that?  Although they have multiple partners, they still feel a sense of loneliness.</p>
<p>Now on the other hand we have another type of union.  We have what I call Sacred Sex.  There is more to sex than what our parents, teachers, television,  internet or society has told us.  There is a sacredness about sex that  most couples have yet to experience.  Sex involves the mind and the  spirit as well as the body.  The sacredness of a sexual union releases a  powerful force within the body that can be harnessed to take you well  beyond an orgasm into a higher state of consciousness.</p>
<p>Your sexuality is a precious part of your nature and deserves to be treated with honor and respect.  In order to reach the level of sacredness that I am writing about, there must be a high level of trust between partners.  When you fully trust and reverence your partner, there are no sexual boundaries or rules except those decided between the two of you.  The sacredness of sex develops as you open up to each other, sharing your thoughts, feelings, fears, desires and fantasies.  Not only does this allow for a more rewarding relationship, it also allows for a more rewarding sexual relationship.</p>
<p>As temperatures continue to fall as we enter into our winter season, cuddle, touch, kiss, rub feet.  Honor yourself and your partner by connecting in a sacred way.</p>
<p>J-licious</p>
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		<title>Shame Blame Game</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 18:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It &#8220;You can never know the journey of another person. You can never know what is being birthed. Resist the need to judge or compare because you just don&#8217;t have enough information.&#8221; I&#8217;m not much of a TV watcher and I am definitely not into the &#8216;NEWS&#8217;.   However, I could not escape all the media attention given to Bishop Eddie Long these days.  Long story (no pun intended) short, Bishop Long has been accused by four young men of using his &#8216;spiritual authority&#8217; to win sexual favors.  It is well known that Bishop Long preaches against homosexuality and same-sex marriages.  As a matter of fact,  in December 2004 Bishop Long led a &#8220;Re-Ignite the Legacy&#8221; march through the streets of Atlanta, GA to, in his own words, &#8220;present a vision of righteousness and justice.&#8221; Now the story of &#8216;fallen&#8217; preacher is not new.  And the story of  religious leaders accused of sexual crimes has been told and re-told countless times.  Most of those stories tell the tale of homosexuality and coercion.  Why is that?  Could it be because same-sex encounters would prevent pregnancies, unwanted children and proof?  Possibly.  Or could it be because same-sex encounters has the sting of [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>&#8220;You can never know the journey of another person. You can never know what is being birthed. Resist the need to judge or compare because you just don&#8217;t have enough information.&#8221;</strong></em></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><span style="color: #333333;">I&#8217;m not much of a TV watcher and I am definitely not into the &#8216;NEWS&#8217;.   However, I could not escape all the media attention given to Bishop Eddie Long these days.  Long story (no pun intended) short, Bishop Long has been accused by four young men of </span></span>using his &#8216;spiritual authority&#8217; to win sexual favors.  It is well known that Bishop Long preaches against homosexuality and same-sex marriages.  As a matter of fact,  in December 2004 Bishop Long led a &#8220;Re-Ignite the Legacy&#8221; march through the streets of Atlanta, GA to, in his own words, &#8220;present a vision of righteousness and justice.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Now the story of &#8216;fallen&#8217; preacher is not new.  And the story of  religious leaders accused of sexual crimes has been told and re-told countless times.  Most of those stories tell the tale of homosexuality and coercion.  Why is that?  Could it be because same-sex encounters would prevent pregnancies, unwanted children and proof?  Possibly.  Or could it be because same-sex encounters has the sting of not only guilt but SHAME?  And with shame (as we all know) things are kept hidden.  No one speaks about what they are ashamed of.  And when they do speak, it&#8217;s usually about what the other person has done to them.  They usually play the Shame Blame Game.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">One thing for sure, these accusations against Bishop Long has people talking.  Talking about their own experience with sexual abuse and their beliefs regarding sexual orientation.  People are now sharing their lives openly when before they were too ashamed.  Have you noticed that when one accuser steps up that 2, 3 , and maybe even more begin to come forward?  That&#8217;s because now they don&#8217;t feel so alone.  They don&#8217;t feel so ashamed.  They now understand that there are others that have experienced similar things in their lives.  They now have what I would call a &#8220;comradery of victims&#8221;.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I am not writing to convict or to prove innocence in Bishop Long&#8217;s case.  As the beginning of my post suggests, I just do not have enough information to make that call.  And honestly, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s my call to make. Nor am I writing to &#8216;make small&#8217; of the accusers accusations.  I applaud them for regaining control of their lives by speaking out.   I am writing however,  to suggest that whatever has happen in your lives that you hold YOURSELVES accountable.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">You see, we all agree to come here (earth) to fulfill a certain purpose.  Most of us have yet to figure out our own purpose.  How can we possibly figure it out for someone else?  <div class="simplePullQuote">Everything that we encounter in our lives allows us to experience our higher selves.</div>  Whatever you experience is neither good or bad.  It just is.  Now I am not trivializing any of your experiences.  I am merely suggesting that you look for the lessons and gifts in each one.  Stop blaming others for what has happened THROUGH not TO you.  See when you place blame on another, you give them power over your life.  You relinquish your own power to bring peace and bliss into your life and possibly help another in their life.  No one wins in the Shame Blame Game.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Sending light, love and blessings you way,</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">J-licious</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin ItSex is a very touchy topic to openly discuss. Masturbation or self-pleasure is just as touchy.  (No pun intended.)  It is because most people are taught to  think of sex, including masturbation as a dirty carnal sin.  People tend to think if you masturbate,  you are over sexed&#8211;or a nympho or your partner does not please you and therefore inept.  Even though we do not talk about it, masturbation is as normal a human characteristic as needing self awareness, love or spirituality.  Yes, I said spirituality. Self-pleasure is accepted and expected among men; however, the opposite is expected of women. In spite of the sexual revolution, female masturbation is still somewhat taboo. Couples generally do not discuss the subject of masturbation which is a shame because if men and women were more open to the possibilities of self-love then there opens up the possibility for couples to really spice up their sex life and for more intense and pleasurable orgasms.  How can you tell/show your partner what works for you, if you don&#8217;t know? Self pleasure is the only way for a person to really learn their body and what pleases them. To really get the most from love-making [...]]]></description>
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<p>Self-pleasure is accepted and expected among men; however, the opposite is expected of women. In spite of the sexual revolution, female masturbation is still somewhat taboo. Couples generally do not discuss the subject of masturbation which is a shame because if men and women were more open to the possibilities of self-love then there opens up the possibility for couples to really spice up their sex life and for more intense and pleasurable orgasms.  How can you tell/show your partner what works for you, if you don&#8217;t know?</p>
<p>Self pleasure is the only way for a person to really learn their body and what pleases them. To really get the most from love-making with your sexual partner you must know your own body first. This is true for both men and women. You must explore your own body and listen to what it tells you. Self pleasure and exploration is the key to better love-making.  Masturbation can be a very empowering learning tool for women &#8211; it teaches us about our bodies, and how it responds to sexual stimulation. Many normal and healthy women only experience an orgasm while masturbating, or find it is their most intense type of orgasm. I can not tell you the number of times my close friends or clients have told me that they have never experienced an orgasm with their partner.</p>
<p>While it is certainly unfounded and untrue, the majority of people believe that women are less sexual than men.   Where do you think the term &#8216;cougar&#8217; comes from?  We are led to believe that women think about sex and desire sex much less. Society creates outcasts of women who are openly sexual. We are seen as promiscuous or as whores.  This results in women believing they should not have strong sexual feelings and desires. Unfortunately, many women are ashamed to admit they become ‘horny’. This results in women introverting and denying their own sexual feelings and desires. While a woman&#8217;s desire for sex may change with time, they are overall just as sexual as men. If a woman accepts that she is equally as sexual as a man, she is more likely to feel comfortable with her desire to &#8216;please herself&#8217;.  Once you know what you enjoy sexually, it will be possible to share that information with your partner and ask for what you want and need sexually.</p>
<p>Enjoy,</p>
<p>J-licious</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin It Estrogen /es·tro·gen/ (es´tro-jen) a generic term for estrus-producing compounds; the female sex hormones As I sat to pen this post, I was at a lost for words.   I tried to come up with the perfect confabulation and just decided to let this artist, Kassondra Rockswell speak.  She speaks &#8216;The Truth&#8221; and there&#8217;s no denying that.  Well, you could deny it; however, it&#8217;s still &#8216;The Truth&#8217;.  In her words: THE RETURN OF THE CHROMOSOME X MUSIC MOVEMENT by Kassondra Rockswell The RCXMM is a call and response. It is a response to the lack of intelligent, powerful women in the music industry spotlight. Though we may be visible in the game and pretty in the pictures, we are still mostly engaged as cheerleaders&#8211; sideline dimes who sing hooks on other rappers’ records. RCXMM is a call for female creators to “get in the game.” While we are holding up the world as hardworking, multifaceted creatures&#8211;mothers, business women, counselors, chefs, chauffeurs, rock stars&#8211;we are singing along to superficial bullshit with anthems that do not define who we truly are. We have plentiful testimonies of beauty and struggle and joy that remain undocumented, yet it is our responsibility to record them. [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Estrogen</strong> /es·tro·gen/ (es´tro-jen) a generic term for estrus-producing compounds; the female sex hormones</p>
<p>As I sat to pen this post, I was at a lost for words.   I tried to come up with the perfect confabulation and just decided to let this artist, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/kassondra.rockswell" target="_blank">Kassondra Rockswell</a> speak.  She speaks &#8216;The Truth&#8221; and there&#8217;s no denying that.  Well, you could deny it; however, it&#8217;s still &#8216;The Truth&#8217;.  In her words:</p>
<p><strong>THE RETURN OF THE CHROMOSOME X MUSIC MOVEMENT</strong><br />
by <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/kassondra.rockswell" target="_blank">Kassondra Rockswell</a></p>
<p>The RCXMM is a call and response.</p>
<p>It is a response to the lack of intelligent, powerful women in the music industry spotlight. Though we may be visible in the game and pretty in the pictures, we are still mostly engaged as cheerleaders&#8211; sideline dimes who sing hooks on other rappers’ records.</p>
<p>RCXMM is a call for female creators to “get in the game.” While we are holding up the world as hardworking, multifaceted creatures&#8211;mothers, business women, counselors, chefs, chauffeurs, rock stars&#8211;we are singing along to superficial bullshit with anthems that do not define who we truly are. We have plentiful testimonies of beauty and struggle and joy that remain undocumented, yet it is our responsibility to record them.</p>
<p>It is a response to the inundation of gyrating nakedness and the need to exchange tits and ass for a few moments in a music video. We appear so powerless in the media&#8211;shakin’ and shit, eyes wide shut and closed-mouthed&#8211;while using our voices to say nothing. Sex and sexiness have a place, but we must be naked by our own creative terms, according to when we deem it is appropriate or necessary&#8211;not because some one else has mandated it for us.</p>
<p>RCXMM is a call to women creators. We, as women, are ultimately responsible for how the world views us&#8211;whether it holds us up high with respect or looks down upon us with disdain. We have given up our hip-hop governance like plastic toy keys to mumbling children who neither read nor write…nor respect us. Now…it is time. We owe it to ourselves to take control of the game.</p>
<p>So…pick up a pen, drop a line, coin a phrase, write a word, rock a mic, REPRESENT, and set the record straight.</p>
<p>I, Kassondra ROCKSWELL am setting it off.</p>
<p>My first single, ESTROGEN, from my forthcominng music album, GEMINI, will be released the first week of 2010 to initiate this movement.</p>
<p>Stay Tuned, Stay Focused, Stay Ready<br />
Rocks</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin ItOur yummy topic for today is&#8230;.-LICIOUS!!!!  Given the title of my blog, most people think it&#8217;s about sex.   I get tons and tons of spammers selling or trying to sell sex, sex toys, sex enhancements,  just about anything related to sex.  Just last night, I deleted about 50 spam messages.  All trying to sell me something related to sex.  And I am sure you&#8217;ve all heard that ole saying&#8230;sex sells.  I thought of that as I lay in bed last night and wondered. If sex sells, then what exactly does it sell?  Some would say your body, others may say your respect and some would even say your soul.  I&#8217;m not so sure that sex SELLS as much as it BUYS. In today&#8217;s society, if someone is considered sexy, it could very well &#8216;buy&#8217; them out of that traffic ticket.  It could get you into the night club without waiting in line.   It could &#8216;buy&#8217; them a position within a company.  It could &#8216;buy&#8217; then an A+ in school.  It could even &#8216;buy&#8217; you into a marriage of convenience.  It appears that everyone loves &#8216;sexy&#8217;.  The question is..what IS sexy?  What defines your sexiness?  So I put [...]]]></description>
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<p>In today&#8217;s society, if someone is considered sexy, it could very well &#8216;buy&#8217; them out of that traffic ticket.  It could get you into the night club without waiting in line.   It could &#8216;buy&#8217; them a position within a company.  It could &#8216;buy&#8217; then an A+ in school.  It could even &#8216;buy&#8217; you into a marriage of convenience.  It appears that everyone loves &#8216;sexy&#8217;.  The question is..what IS sexy?  What defines your sexiness?  So I put this question out to my male friends and you will be surprised at the responses.  Here goes the top 5:</p>
<p>1.  People can be sexy even though they might not be the best looking person in the world,it&#8217;s just their vibes and personality and how they carry themselves</p>
<p>2.  I find power,  self-confidence, compassion and intelligence sexy.</p>
<p>3.  It is a visual image that heightens sexual arousal.</p>
<p>4.  Sexy is confidence in who you are as a person. It has nothing to do with your dress. It&#8217;s the way you move, the way you laugh and smile. It lures you into the person. You remember &#8220;You gotta move like the waves in the ocean&#8221;. It&#8217;s your flow.</p>
<p>5.  SEXY-It first starts with the personality.  I feel that if a woman has her priorities in line, got a lot good going for her,  don&#8217;t need to depend on a man and is independent.</p>
<p>Now to MY definition&#8230;.Sexy is his glance at me from across the room.  You know that look that says &#8216;I wanna tear you down right now, this very minute.  The look that makes the two of you &#8216;run to the car right quick&#8217;.  Sexy is the way he supports the small of my back as he opens the door or as I climb the stairs.  Sexy is the way he strolls in from a day of work.  Sexy is the way he reaches inside his pocket and says&#8230;&#8217;go head, you can buy that&#8217;.  Sexy is his penmanship on the check that pays ALL the bills.  Sexy is the way he says, &#8220;NO&#8221; and means it.  Sexy is how he shares with me his dreams AND his fears.  Sexy is how he allows me to participate in reaching our goals.  Sexy is how he fulfills his role as the man without tearing me down as a woman.  I could go on, but I think you get the idea.  So you see, sexy is not about the actual sexual act.  It&#8217;s about all those things that may lead up to&#8230;..</p>
<p>So, what&#8217;s your definition of sexy?</p>
<p>In love,</p>
<p>J-licious</p>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s Talk About Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 17:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jacque Keil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TweetSharePin ItRecently several of my Facebook friends posted a video on my wall.  The video showed children being taught and encouraged to dance in a fashion that simulated sex.  As you might imagine, people were outraged.  They wanted to find out where these children lived and call their local Child Protective Services.  When I looked at the video, I have to admit I wasn&#8217;t ready. Then again&#8230;&#8230;.yes I was.  When I consider today&#8217;s Rap/Hip-Hop/R&#38;B music videos, dances that simulate sex is normal these days. I also had to ask myself, when did sex become shameful?  A few weeks ago, I had the privilege to hear an interview with Lois Hollis on Party 934.  She was discussing and promoting her latest book,  Sex and the Shame Factor.  She spoke openly about sex and how not only the act has become taboo, but the word itself.  She discussed how sex is now being seen as shameful.  How we&#8217;ve gotten away from the spirituality of sex and turned it pornographic. I&#8217;m not sure about you, but when I was growing up, my &#8216;birds and the bees&#8217; lesson went a little something like this&#8230;&#8230;&#8221;Don&#8217;t do it til you&#8217;re married&#8221;.  Well, that didn&#8217;t tell me [...]]]></description>
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<p>I also had to ask myself, when did sex become shameful?  A few weeks ago, I had the privilege to hear an interview with Lois Hollis on Party 934.  She was discussing and promoting her latest book,  Sex and the Shame Factor.  She spoke openly about sex and how not only the act has become taboo, but the word itself.  She discussed how sex is now being seen as shameful.  How we&#8217;ve gotten away from the spirituality of sex and turned it pornographic.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure about you, but when I was growing up, my &#8216;birds and the bees&#8217; lesson went a little something like this&#8230;&#8230;&#8221;Don&#8217;t do it til you&#8217;re married&#8221;.  Well, that didn&#8217;t tell me a damn thang.  I didn&#8217;t even know what birds and bees had to do with sex anyway.  And what the hell was &#8216;it&#8217;?  I was sheltered, very sheltered.  And I realized early that if I were going to learn anything about sex I was going to have to read a book.  But sex is not something that you learn from a book.  Sex is to be experienced.  And in my opinion, I think that&#8217;s how it was meant to be learned.</p>
<p>I also learned shame at an early age.  It was shameful to even think about sex and you certainly could not ask questions.  No one wanted to openly discuss sex.  Not my parents, not my grandparents, not my teachers, not even my spiritual leaders.  That is one of the reasons I openly discuss sex with my children.  Because I know that if we don&#8217;t talk about it, they will find someone who will.  And usually that someone is a peer who is looking for answers themselves.</p>
<p>As a mother, I feel it my duty to teach my children about self-respect and to respect others, self-love and to love others.  I firmly believe that when we instill in our children self-respect and self-love, we will find ourselves living a different world.  When we teach them to love and respect their bodies and the bodies others, the number of teenage parents will drastically decrease, HIV/AIDS will no longer have bodies to infect, and we will see a more spiritually developed world.  So, let&#8217;s not keep our children in the dark&#8230;.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk about sex,</p>
<p>J-licious</p>
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