Peace and a Multitude of Blessings to you……

It’s always great to hear/read another person’s perspective. That’s how I learn more about myself, others and the whole of us…:-)

As mentioned in the video, both Sexy and Provocative ‘provoke’ certain thoughts, feelings and emotions. What I failed to mention (and you so graciously added), is what is ‘provoked’ depends on what lies within the person being ‘provoked’.

Thanks again for such profound thoughts and words of wisdom. Also thanks for the reminder to be careful of placing judgment on ANY thing.

In love,
J

I waited a 24 hours or so before I commented on your vblog.  I wanted to just be with the information and just soak it all in.  These types of questions gives us the opportunity to look deep within to explore what is true for us.  Hakim does pose an interesting statement.

First, nice background, you have gorgeous eyes and I love the way your lips come together when you say the word “Nothing”.  If you don’t know what I mean go back and watch your video.

Please note that anything I say in my comments is not a way to make what you say “wrong” and what I say “right”.  Having the need to be right is just another way the EGO (Edging God Out) tries to separate and divide us rather than unite us and allowing us to understand we are all one.  Having said that this is just another view of the way I see the world and I hope you will enjoy the fresh perspective.

Someone once said to me that “what you see depends on where you sit.”  If you were floating in outer space then planet Earth seem like a small dot but when you’re running around on dry land this place can be quite astounding.  So what I’m going to do (metaphorically speaking) is rise above as though I were looking down on the whole of your message.

The way you have characterized a “provocative” woman versus a “sexy” woman is quite interesting. In fact, I think most people might be able to learn more from a woman who is a provocative woman than they could from a sexy woman.  Just as we could probably learn more from a drunk driver than we could from a sober man.

When I rise above I’m able to look deep within and see every woman as sexy, each with equal wisdom.  Now grant it some of the “sexiness” may be covered up with such things as guilt and fear but heal those things and the sexiness emerges.

Most of the men you spoke with I’m quite curious where they derived their ideal of sexiness.  I’m quite sure it was something that was handed down to them.  Perhaps it was all of the commercialism that each of us are commonly bombarded with.  Thus the ideals about what is sexy is nothing more than a projection of the mind.  I would also bet that the women that men would label as “sexy” also see themselves as “provocative” and visa versa.  You see in this dualistic illusion of a world we reside in, it’s impossible not to have a little bit of both.

Also, as alluded to before what a man sees depends on where he sits.  The only thing you can see are the predominant thoughts inside of you.  Each man is merely projected what is most prominent in their own minds.  To tell the truth there is no sexy or provocative woman outside of our mind and each of only project what we believe is true.  Most of what we see is not the truth anyway.

Here’s what I mean.  Words are but symbols of symbols.  They are twice removed from reality.  So when we use words like “sexy” and “provocative” to describe someone we are not truly see the person for who they are.  If we would simply bow down in total amazement.  Just like I was so amazed at the beauty of your eyes as I saw Spirit flow through you.  How could I think about anything else when I was noticing those eyes?  It’s only when the EGO begins to slip in to try and make something be wrong about you that I or anyone could get off center.

In this illusion of a world we live in how would we have “sexy’ without the “provocative”?  You see they are equally the same to me walking side by side.

Once again thanks for allowing me to share a different perspective.

Love you.
R