Comments on: Let’s Talk About Sex http://jacquelicious.com/lets-talk-about-sex/ Wed, 16 May 2012 23:52:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: April http://jacquelicious.com/lets-talk-about-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-531 April Wed, 31 Mar 2010 19:01:22 +0000 http://jacquelicious.com/?p=190#comment-531 Yes! Yes!

]]> By: Rickey Benns http://jacquelicious.com/lets-talk-about-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-354 Rickey Benns Wed, 23 Sep 2009 06:17:28 +0000 http://jacquelicious.com/?p=190#comment-354 Parents do their best with the tools that they have. Unfortunately, the best just doesn't seem to be good enough. What I mean by good enough is they don't seem to be able to produce the desires that they are wanting. I believe that SEX is acronym for Something Extraordinary Xceptional but rarely do we see it like that. I didn't see the videos but I don't need to. All I have to do is turn on any Beyonce video and I can see a similar antic being portrayed. The people who were outraged by the videos what exactly are they doing to make a change besides threatening to call CPS? What you resist ....persists. If you take on all the worlds pains then you must take on all the worlds joys. If the intent is to make a change then start a sex education class to teach the young what you wish them to know. If you fight this from an external viewpoint you will be fighting a losing battle. All the dancing you see is an internal thing not an external one. Sex is neutral. We take sex just like marriage and try and make it nasty and dirty. We take sex and make it a thing not to be discussed openly. What we failed to realize is that sex is just like the Blob (some of you may be too young to remember the Blob) it will seep through any crack or crevice to have its presence known. Be the change that you wish to see in the world. Those kids learned it from somewhere. Look in your own closets before you start to call CPS. Parents do their best with the tools that they have. Unfortunately, the best just doesn’t seem to be good enough. What I mean by good enough is they don’t seem to be able to produce the desires that they are wanting.

I believe that SEX is acronym for Something Extraordinary Xceptional but rarely do we see it like that. I didn’t see the videos but I don’t need to. All I have to do is turn on any Beyonce video and I can see a similar antic being portrayed.

The people who were outraged by the videos what exactly are they doing to make a change besides threatening to call CPS? What you resist ….persists.

If you take on all the worlds pains then you must take on all the worlds joys. If the intent is to make a change then start a sex education class to teach the young what you wish them to know. If you fight this from an external viewpoint you will be fighting a losing battle.

All the dancing you see is an internal thing not an external one. Sex is neutral. We take sex just like marriage and try and make it nasty and dirty. We take sex and make it a thing not to be discussed openly. What we failed to realize is that sex is just like the Blob (some of you may be too young to remember the Blob) it will seep through any crack or crevice to have its presence known.

Be the change that you wish to see in the world. Those kids learned it from somewhere. Look in your own closets before you start to call CPS.

]]> By: Princess T. Wreh http://jacquelicious.com/lets-talk-about-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-352 Princess T. Wreh Tue, 22 Sep 2009 19:38:36 +0000 http://jacquelicious.com/?p=190#comment-352 I understand exactly what you mean. I remember one day visiting my father who is super religious, and I had my BABYPHAT top on. On the front of the shirt was the words 'SEXY,' well my dad threw a fit about my clothing style and behavior about taking something as sex and flaunting it in front of my children. Okay, I'm a grown woman with two kids and my dad is yelling at me in front of my kids, because my top has sex written on it. While I didn't respond to my dad about his unnecessary outburst, I thought about my life as a child. I was never told about sex, by my parents and when I first heard about it, I was at church, pledging that I would be a virgin till I was married. Well isn't that nice! pledging to abstain from something I knew nothing about. Why is sex such a taboo topic? My take on past generations is that, they themselves had really deep thoughts about sex and were suppressed from hearing or studying about it. This leads to kids having kids, unwanted diseases and high increase in abortion related deaths. I've made a pact with myself, my kids will hear sex lecture from my mouth, and not only will I tell them the exact facts, I'm leaving out the freaking birds and bees, I mean really, animals? I rather they hear it from me like I give every advice about life, sex should be one of the main topic and most important. If they don't hear it from you,the parent(s), they will experiment and develope the wrong ideas about it from friends or their peers. My dad still forbids the kids from saying any words with sex in it. I can't wear my favorite "Sex in the City" t-shirt or anything that mentions SEX around my dad! What a shame! he has four kids, and never told any of us about sex. I was fortunate that I never got pregnant at a young age, but many of my cousins are headed in that direction. one of my closest cousins got pregnant in high school, the very first time she had sex. We need to except that fact that we are all in a different era, lets teach the kids what they need to know so that music videos, or the media don't have major influences on their lives. I understand exactly what you mean. I remember one day visiting my father who is super religious, and I had my BABYPHAT top on. On the front of the shirt was the words ‘SEXY,’ well my dad threw a fit about my clothing style and behavior about taking something as sex and flaunting it in front of my children. Okay, I’m a grown woman with two kids and my dad is yelling at me in front of my kids, because my top has sex written on it. While I didn’t respond to my dad about his unnecessary outburst, I thought about my life as a child. I was never told about sex, by my parents and when I first heard about it, I was at church, pledging that I would be a virgin till I was married. Well isn’t that nice! pledging to abstain from something I knew nothing about. Why is sex such a taboo topic? My take on past generations is that, they themselves had really deep thoughts about sex and were suppressed from hearing or studying about it. This leads to kids having kids, unwanted diseases and high increase in abortion related deaths. I’ve made a pact with myself, my kids will hear sex lecture from my mouth, and not only will I tell them the exact facts, I’m leaving out the freaking birds and bees, I mean really, animals? I rather they hear it from me like I give every advice about life, sex should be one of the main topic and most important. If they don’t hear it from you,the parent(s), they will experiment and develope the wrong ideas about it from friends or their peers. My dad still forbids the kids from saying any words with sex in it. I can’t wear my favorite “Sex in the City” t-shirt or anything that mentions SEX around my dad! What a shame! he has four kids, and never told any of us about sex. I was fortunate that I never got pregnant at a young age, but many of my cousins are headed in that direction. one of my closest cousins got pregnant in high school, the very first time she had sex. We need to except that fact that we are all in a different era, lets teach the kids what they need to know so that music videos, or the media don’t have major influences on their lives.

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